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Family financial planning game

Equipping our children with strong money management skills isn't just helpful; it's essential for their future financial stability. The most valuable financial lessons children learn come directly from the examples and guidance they receive within their own family. By involving your children in practical discussions and decisions, appropriate for their age, you're not just teaching them about rands and cents; you're instilling critical thinking, responsibility and the confidence to navigate their financial future.

This guide is designed to spark vital conversations about money within your family. Its purpose is to demystify finances, foster smart habits and set the scene for engaging and shared learning experiences.

Why financial understanding matters for every family member

For children, understanding money builds critical thinking, helping them make informed choices, distinguish needs from wants and appreciate trade-offs. This fosters responsibility, independence and the confidence to manage their own money and save for goals, which will ultimately prepare them for maintaining their financial wellbeing as adults.

For families, open money discussions create transparency and trust, which also help with strengthening bonds and easing financial anxiety. This collective effort cultivates a culture of prudence and establishes healthy financial habits that benefit everyone.

Setting the stage: Practical ways to talk about finances

You don't need to be a financial expert to have money conversations. Begin with simple, age-appropriate steps that naturally lead into the topics covered in our challenge.

PAIR EARNINGS WITH A SPEND-SAVE-GIVE SYSTEM

Teach children to divide their earnings (from allowance, gifts etc.) into 3 categories:

  • Spend for immediate wants to teach decision-making and consequence and understand value
  • Save for longer-term goals to teach delayed gratification and prioritisation
  • Give for charity and helping others to foster generosity

INVOLVE THEM IN HOUSEHOLD DECISIONS

Teach as you go by making them aware of the financial decisions behind purchases:  

  • During grocery shopping, discuss choices based on price and need  
  • Highlight how everyday actions, such as conserving energy, directly impact electricity bills
  • When saving for significant family purchases, involve older children in researching costs and understanding the family's savings plan

HELP THEM SET THEIR OWN FINANCIAL GOALS

Being invested in the outcome will give them a sense of ownership and impact their choices:

  • Work together to identify something they truly want and create a step-by-step savings plan, celebrating milestones along the way

DISCUSS NEEDS VS WANTS

This helps them prioritise and make thoughtful spending choices:  

  • Give them examples that will help them understand the essential versus discretionary spending
  • Learn to pause and evaluate purchases; for example, we need food, but I want ice cream
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The family financial planning game

Money conversations don’t have to be dull or daunting. We’ve put together a fun way to turn it into a shared family adventure with simplified concepts and ongoing dialogue.

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